The Think Tank

Rebuilding Broken Connections

How to Redeem Conflict in Your Marriage

Did you know that research shows that there are four patterns of interaction between spouses that indicate that your marriage might be headed for trouble? We all dream of our...Read more

Betrayal Trauma

Restoring Safety and Trust

Discovering your spouse has been unfaithful is one of the most traumatic things that can happen in a marriage. You may have gone through many relationships before this one or...Read more

Is This Narcissism?

“That guy is a such a jerk! He’s probably a narcissist.”

“Why does she always have to be the center of attention?! I bet she’s a narcissist.”

This...Read more

Fathers, Your Presence Matters

As a young boy, I often spent endless Midwest summers playing basketball in my driveway after school or on the weekends well into the dark. Some evenings, the local neighbors...Read more

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Taking Action and Being the Change You Need

“It’s all in God’s hands". That’s what my husband and I told ourselves as we struggled with infertility. At the time, we had been together 10 years, married...Read more

The Connection Equation

As a therapist, but also as a husband and father, I continue to be fascinated by how our neurobiology points to that fact that we are created for...Read more

Inside Jokes

My brother calls me Michelle (he pronounces it Mee-chelle). We once knew someone named Mike Limbskull (not a real person). He says the word 'snuffles' and I know...Read more

Biological Rudeness

Have you ever had a conversation with a friend and you overreact to something they say and you’re not sure why? Or have you been in the middle...Read more

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